Blog - First Things First

The Key Trait Found in All Happy Marriages

It's probably not what you think it is.

We search for the secret of a happy marriage like Jack Sparrow searching for the fountain of youth. If he could find the ever-elusive fountain, eternal youth would be his. It can be easy to view a happy marriage through the same lens. It seems elusive and out of reach. But it’s not! In fact,…

So, You Need to Talk to Your In-Laws About Boundaries

Setting some limits can be a good thing for everyone.

Do you remember the first time you met your future in-laws? Was it important to you that they liked you, or did you even care? Did you dress to impress? Taking a walk down memory lane gives you a picture of how that relationship began. Once you got married, you may have thought your in-laws…

How to Talk to Your Spouse When You Feel Disrespected

These steps can help you express yourself so you can feel heard.

Feeling disrespected by your spouse can be one of the most conflicting feelings ever. Part of you wants to believe the person you love truly loves and values you. On the other hand, it can be demoralizing and hurtful to live with someone you feel dismisses you or doesn’t appreciate you. Not dealing with disrespect…