Blog - First Things First

I Feel Like I’m In A Constant Power Struggle With My Child!

To remain in charge, you have to keep your cool.

“NO!” Do you remember how you felt the first time your child dead-eyed defied you? As a parent of very strong-willed sons, I remember the first time my oldest said, “NO!” when I asked him to pick up his toys in the living room. I was so taken aback I said to myself, “I must…

How to Deal With Your College Student Coming Home for an Extended Break

Think about these things for your adult child's visit home.

Do you remember your first trip home from college? My mother picked me up from the airport and immediately took me to my favorite hometown restaurant. When we got home, we sat in the kitchen and talked for hours about my time away at school. She was curious and asked about the new things I…

5 Things I Wish I’d Known Before I Became A Dad

You've got what it takes!

“Honey, the test was positive.” When you find out you’re about to be a dad, the lack of experience can strike fear into even the most confident man. There are a few things I’ve learned after playing a part in bringing seven kids into this world that would’ve been helpful to know on the front…